Your Strategy For Connecting
The Lanzarote Sessions - Series 13 Session 6
THE MESSAGE
Transcribed on 23rd February 2026 @ 3:00 pm
Hello friend. You are correct, I held back connecting with you because I needed you to build your energy more.
How do you know you are connected to me and that these words are mine and not your own?
Yes, I know the answers to those questions, but do you really know? Do all the mediums working on your plane fully understand? Do they need to?
The most common issue we know that your mediums report is in them not knowing when we, (the so-called spirit) are there with them. Do you know why that often is? Because they have not yet defined a strategy to use for confirming a connection with us.
The better mediums with more advanced abilities know when we are with them, because they have a strategy for knowing. If you have no strategy, how can you possibly know we are with you?
Let me say this, we are always with the medium that needs us and that performs a strategy for commencing the work. But does the medium ever know this for certain? Yes, the mediums with a strategy. Those without such strategy are hoping, guessing, and shooting blind, even though we are with them.
The crucial aspect of having a connected strategy is that once it is established, the medium only has to focus on listening to our message and passing it on.
Would you please write briefly what you think your strategy is? Keep it short and I will still be here...
( ME) I start with an opening prayer. Then a request for a speaker to connect. I ask for a dominant thought to be repeated if it is from the speaker. My strategy is that I now know I have ticked all the boxes and I just need to start writing. I know that what follows has to be from the connected speaker in the spirit realm.
Thank you. A simple strategy don’t you think? Would you say it is hugely based on a trust that you have developed over time? Of course it is. And of course it is quite a simple process, a knowing beyond doubt. In fact. doubt would destroy it.
My message to all mediums wanting to have their own connected strategy is this: Learn to accept that once you have completed your usual connection process, then we are there waiting and ready. Say to yourself, “Everything is in place and I am ready to hear you.” That’s all there is to it. Make that a habit and don’t ever give another thought as to whether we are with you. We are! Focus only on relaying all the thoughts that enter your mind. The images, the signs that get your attention. The body reactions. The features that come into your mind and every tiny detail. Talk them out of your mind and keep doing it. Your focus should be mostly listening inwardly and not to your audience. We’re the ones speaking. The audience are the ones listening to you. You are the go-between.
Boom, you’ve cracked it! I’ve said enough to get you reconsidering your mediumship success, and hopefully something I’ve shared will work for you. There’s no reason why it shouldn’t, is there?
Thank you for allowing me this space in your processes for the sharing of my message.
Goodbye and good luck!
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