THE MESSAGE
Transcribed on 8th May 2026 @ 3:50 pm
Thank you. That was a lovely request again. You asked for a speaker to share a message that would help you grow, before you asked that it be useful to others. You put yourself first. When it comes to growth, it has always to be yourself first. You, nor anyone, can make someone else grow, spiritually speaking. Others can be inspired, as can you. But the decision to grow is one only the listener can make.
By the way, I like your choice of music this time. More to my tastes. Take a moment to write the title, I’ll wait.
[ME] SACRED TREASURES III - CHORAL MASTER WORKS FROM RUSSIA.
The next questions to ask yourself is do you want to grow?
What is growth to you and how or what form should it take?
As mediums, as I once was on earth also, growth comes within the process of unfoldment. Unfoldment is rarely defined properly, so let me give you my interpretation. Unfoldment begins when two events occur. One, the person is exposed to proper education of the topic, in our case mediumship. That education can and does come in many lights but as long as the medium is exposed to it, the first part of the unfoldment can happen.
The second part, the hardener to the glue mix, to give you an analogy, is the unquestioning acceptance. When the acceptance is in place, the subject can absorb and change internal thought patterns, beliefs, habits, choices, outlooks, desires and demands.
Some call the unfoldment process as the peeling back of old traits and exposing the raw and better Self within. I can’t better that. The process of unfoldment is glorious. Every action interacts, every consequence adds to the growth, every change comes naturally through the process.
Many talk about getting to know oneself using such methods as meditation and listening to the silence that the inner spirit needs. Yes these are methods to encourage the unfoldment to happen. Appreciating unfoldment for what it is, change, is where the sweetness comes. It becomes less of a chore and more of an integral part of one’s life.
I quote your own saying “One can inspire others, but motivation is self-driven”. Okay I changed it a little. To be inspired requires attention at some level. To be motivated takes [needs] a personal decision to happen. Many people want the cake to eat, but don’t want to gather the ingredients to make the cake. That is what my ole’ gran used to say to me.
Effort takes effort and because this is an effort to oneself, many won’t participate, preferring instead to put it off until another day down the road.
So, with you this time, I have talked of infoldment, finding and growing that inner self. Doing was is asked and always welcoming change. This is [at] the heart of personal growth. Some might query whether that alone will make them to become better as mediums. The answer is a resounding yes. Anything that puts one closer to understanding self is part of the ingredients of a medium.
My friend, I have given you some pointers. I’ve shared my views and shared what I have come to know that is right for you at this time in your spiritual journey. Stay on that path and the horizons will change.
Enjoy your holiday and I will bid farewell until the next time. Okay?
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